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Struggling with jealousy, insecurity, or self-doubt? You're not alone. Join Pattern Transformation Expert Shanenn Bryant as she combines humor, hard-won wisdom, and practical strategies to help you break free from the patterns keeping you stuck. From 2 AM social media stalking sessions to second-guessing yourself at work, each episode tackles the real struggles women face with jealousy, insecurity and confidence.



Pattern Transformation Expert, Shanenn draws from her experience and expertise in attachment theory to help women transform from overwhelming insecurity to unshakeable confidence in both relationships and career. Whether you're battling relationship jealousy or letting imposter syndrome hold you back in the workplace, you'll discover how to recognize your patterns, regulate your emotions, and transform your story.


Ready to stop letting insecurity and jealousy run your life? Subscribe now to start writing a new story - one that isn't controlled by old patterns or endless overthinking.

Recent Episodes

June 30, 2025

When Safety Feels Scary EP 116

Book your FREE Discovery Call Ever started pulling away just when things got good? If calm, consistent love feels boring—or even threatening—you’re not broken. You’re human. In this episode, Shanenn explores why “safe” love can trigger your nervous system, especially if you grew up in chaos or expe…

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June 23, 2025

Tapping Into Emotional Freedom W/ Amy Vincze EP 115

Book Your FREE Discovery Call With Shanenn Watch on my Youtube Channel here In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn welcomes tapping expert Amy Vincze to explore how tapping can help release jealousy, insecurity, and emotional triggers. With over 17 years of experience, Amy shares how she went from sk…

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June 9, 2025

3 Stages of Jealousy Management EP 114

Book your FREE Discovery Call to see how I can help. 🎧 In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn breaks down the 3 stages of jealousy that sabotage emotional security—and how to work through them. If you’ve ever felt stuck in spirals, constantly checking your partner’s phone, or craving reassurance just…

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May 26, 2025

A Nervous System Reset For Jealousy EP 113

In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn unpacks one of the most misunderstood truths about jealousy: it doesn’t start in your mind—it starts in your body. If you’ve ever told yourself “I’m just going to think positive thoughts” ...

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May 19, 2025

Unhealthy Thought Patterns And How To Spot Them w/ Amy Kemp EP 112

In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn sits down with thought habit strategist and author Amy Kemp to unpack one of the most damaging patterns women struggle with—tying our self-worth to performance. From subconscious thought l...

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May 12, 2025

5 Daily Gratitude Habits to Quiet Anxiety and Reclaim Joy w/ Dr. Pegg…

In this episode of Top Self , Shanenn sits down with clinical psychologist and gratitude expert Dr. Peggy DeLong known as The Gratitude Psychologist to explore how gratitude can be a lifeline in life’s hardest seasons. Whethe...

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About the Host

Shanenn Bryant

Shanenn Bryant is the host of the Jealousy Junkie podcast and an ACA survivor. As a former jealous girl herself, she understands the painful range of self-conscious emotions and anxiety jealousy can bring to your relationship and the quality of your life.

Growing up in a chaotic and violent environment brought many challenges as an adult. Feelings of low self-worth, zero self-esteem and extreme jealousy in relationships.

After many years of struggling with jealousy, a lot of self discovery and self-awareness to overcome it, she is pouring her time, dedication, stories and conversations with experts in their field into this podcast to help support you on your journey to go from anxious and fearful in your relationship to calm and confident.

Reviews

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"It’s so helpful to hear the honesty about struggling with jealousy! I felt really weird and alone for most all of my many years about this. Such a relief to hear it described from others. And to be e…"

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