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Dec. 17, 2024

The Connection Formula: Are You Wasting Your Time Worrying? Ep 97

Do you enjoy how you're currently spending your time? Do you feel like you use your time wisely? When I am insecure and jealous, I don't! When you're feeling jealous, most likely you are spending your very precious time thi...

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Dec. 10, 2024

Why Your "Everyone Cheats On Me" Story Might Be More Fiction Than Fac…

Ever felt like you're starring in your own personal soap opera where every relationship ends with infidelity? Host Shanenn Bryant unpacks her own journey from "everyone cheats on me" to "huh, maybe I should check my math" in ...

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Nov. 26, 2024

The 'Just So You Know I Know' Protection Strategy EP 95

Ever catch yourself saying "just so you know, I know what you COULD be doing" to your partner... even when you're pretty sure they're innocent? In this episode, Shanenn's calling you out when she gets into why we sometimes ch...

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Nov. 19, 2024

Why You Control And How To Let Go Of It w/ Joanna Kleinman EP 94

🎙️ Where my freaks at? Control Freaks that is. In this episode, we dive deep with psychologist and author Joanna Kleinman to unpack why that voice in your head is working harder than a barista during morning rush hour. Shane...

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Nov. 12, 2024

The #1 Question To Ask Yourself: Am I Being Honest? EP 93

In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn's guest, award-winning psychologist Dr. Courtney Warren opens up about her own struggles with relationship insecurity and shares her thoughts about the lies we tell ourselves. From crying ...

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Nov. 5, 2024

How To Recover With Your Partner Quickly After A Jealous Meltdown EP …

Feel like your relationship is hanging on by a thread? Do you wonder if too much damage has been done to the relationship? I was there too but you can turn things around. Your relationship can recover from this, but …

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Oct. 29, 2024

Break Free From The Identity Of Jealousy EP 91

🎉 Special Announcement: Join our FREE Two-Day Self-Discovery Workshop! Dates: November 4th & 5th at 1:00 pm ET Register at: topself.com/workshop I'm talking about you on this week's episode. The REAL you. Often we think we ...

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Oct. 8, 2024

How To Know What You Need EP 90

Feeling needy? Do you feel like you're high-maintenance and your constantly asking for things from your partner to make you feel better? It has everything to do with your core wounds and your relationship to self. In this e...

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Oct. 1, 2024

Why Your Friends Don't Freak Out Like You w/ Jessica DaSilva EP 89

How we attach in relationships is everything! That's why we talk about it so much on the podcast and this episode is full of attachment style nuggets you're not going to want to miss. This week, Shanenn has none other …

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Sept. 24, 2024

What You're Doing Isn't Working and Here's Why EP 88

If you've been feeling like you are not strong enough to conquer this jealousy thing or you just dont have what it takes to change your life around, I'm here to tell you, that's not it. That's not why so …

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Aug. 27, 2024

Why Your Relationship Hasn't Changed w/ Abby Haverman EP 87

Ever been caught in the whirlwind of 'should I or shouldn't I?' when it comes to relationships? This episode takes a deep dive into the life-changing realization that the real question isn't about what to do, but about who yo...

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Aug. 13, 2024

You Don't Deserve This EP 86

The one thing I hear so much is how ashamed you are about being jealous, it actually even affects the growth of this podcast because you don't share it with your friends and family because you don't want them to …

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Aug. 6, 2024

Recognizing Your Patterns Through Body Talk w/ Michelle Brown EP 84

In this episode of the Top Self podcast, I talk with Michelle Brown, a functional nutrition and lifestyle practitioner with a specialty in the biology of trauma. Michelle explains how trauma affects the body's nervous system ...

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July 30, 2024

Financial Trust and Transparency w/ Coaches Shana & Vanessa EP 83

In this episode, master financial coaches, Shana and Vanessa, who co-host the Financial Coaching for Women podcast, which ranks in the top 1.5% worldwide and stays in the top 10 "How To" podcasts on Apple in the US AND they …

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July 9, 2024

From Rock Bottom To Recovery EP 82

If you are someone who is a recovering alcoholic or thinking about getting sober, you're in the right place my friend. Addiction is tough and I have seen it throughout my family and others families and it can be so …

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July 2, 2024

Behind Your Cheating Mind EP 81

Today is heavy and you may feel called out a bit and it just might feel uncomfortable. Just like jealousy, this topic may feel shameful too but you are not alone in this either. I'm talking about cheating and not …

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June 25, 2024

Do You Still Love Me EP 80

I am flying solo in today's episode and wanted to discuss just a few takeaways from my last guest Topaz Adizes and our conversation about the questions we ask and why we ask them. It's a quick dump episode but …

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June 18, 2024

Ask Your Partner Better Questions w/ Topaz Adizes EP 79

Feel like your asking the same questions over and over again to your partner? Does it seem like you already know what you want the answer to be? Wonder why your conversations often seem to escalate when you ask your …

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June 11, 2024

What's Behind Your Jealous Mind w/ Thais Gibson EP 78

This episode includes LIFE CHANGING information from Thais Gibson, that years from now, you're going to remember listening to it and know it was the pivotal moment that set you on a path of transformation. As a leading figure...

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June 4, 2024

It Makes Perfect Sense You Feel This Way EP 77

I absolutely can't stand it when I hear people say "you have to just get over it". Or especially things like.. you're crazy, or you're nuts when they are referring to you being jealous. There is such a stigma around …

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May 28, 2024

The Myth Of Positive Thinking w/ Dr. Eddie O'Connor EP 76

Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Cal l to see how I can help. You've been told to "Think Positive" so many times in your life and this could be keeping you stuck. According to my guest today, Dr. Eddie O'Connor, …

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May 21, 2024

How To Get What You Need Instead Of Nagging For What You Want w/ Dr. …

Every time you catch yourself nagging from here on out, you're going to remember this episode. I have such a FIRE guest today. Dr. Abby Medcalf, a relationship expert, psychologist, author, podcast host, and TEDx speaker and...

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May 14, 2024

3 Reasons You’re Not Taking This Step >> BONUS EP 74

The Trust Building Bootcamp is starting soon and if you haven't joined yet, you want to listen to this episode. I had in my head that if there had been something like this available for me when I was going …

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May 7, 2024

The Most Important Relationship You Can Have w/ Katarina Polonska EP …

Trigger Warning.... sorta.... Not only is she Oxford trained smart, she's beautiful as well. The talented Katarina Polonska is my guest today and she's talking about the most important relationship of all. The relationship ...

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