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July 9, 2024

From Rock Bottom To Recovery EP 82

If you are someone who is a recovering alcoholic or thinking about getting sober, you're in the right place my friend. Addiction is tough and I have seen it throughout my family and others families and it can be so destructi...

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July 2, 2024

Behind Your Cheating Mind EP 81

Today is heavy and you may feel called out a bit and it just might feel uncomfortable. Just like jealousy, this topic may feel shameful too but you are not alone in this either. I'm talking about cheating and not your partne...

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June 25, 2024

Do You Still Love Me EP 80

I am flying solo in today's episode and wanted to discuss just a few takeaways from my last guest Topaz Adizes and our conversation about the questions we ask and why we ask them. It's a quick dump episode but an important on...

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June 18, 2024

Ask Your Partner Better Questions w/ Topaz Adizes EP 79

Feel like your asking the same questions over and over again to your partner? Does it seem like you already know what you want the answer to be? Wonder why your conversations often seem to escalate when you ask your burning...

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June 11, 2024

What's Behind Your Jealous Mind w/ Thais Gibson EP 78

This episode includes LIFE CHANGING information from Thais Gibson, that years from now, you're going to remember listening to it and know it was the pivotal moment that set you on a path of transformation. As a leading figure...

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June 4, 2024

It Makes Perfect Sense You Feel This Way EP 77

I absolutely can't stand it when I hear people say "you have to just get over it". Or especially things like.. you're crazy, or you're nuts when they are referring to you being jealous. There is such a stigma around "being je...

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May 28, 2024

The Myth Of Positive Thinking w/ Dr. Eddie O'Connor EP 76

Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Cal l to see how I can help. You've been told to "Think Positive" so many times in your life and this could be keeping you stuck. According to my guest today, Dr. Eddie O'Connor, a cli...

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May 21, 2024

How To Get What You Need Instead Of Nagging For What You Want w/ Dr. …

Every time you catch yourself nagging from here on out, you're going to remember this episode. I have such a FIRE guest today. Dr. Abby Medcalf, a relationship expert, psychologist, author, podcast host, and TEDx speaker and...

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May 14, 2024

3 Reasons You’re Not Taking This Step >> BONUS EP 74

The Trust Building Bootcamp is starting soon and if you haven't joined yet, you want to listen to this episode. I had in my head that if there had been something like this available for me when I was going through my jealousy...

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May 7, 2024

The Most Important Relationship You Can Have w/ Katarina Polonska EP …

Trigger Warning.... sorta.... Not only is she Oxford trained smart, she's beautiful as well. The talented Katarina Polonska is my guest today and she's talking about the most important relationship of all. The relationship ...

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April 16, 2024

Beauty Beyond Skin Deep w/ Dr. Mary Alice Mina EP 72

In a world constantly bombarding us with images of youth and perfection, navigating getting older can sometimes feel quite frankly... sad. Dr. Mary Alice Mina, a Harvard-trained dermatologist and I talk about the entire spect...

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April 9, 2024

Baby Mama and Ex Drama EP 71

Sizzle, sizzle! This is a hot topic and one I hear a lot of drama around and it makes perfect sense of why the ex or mother of your partner's child might be a area of insecurity for you. I tackle the sensitive topics of deal...

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April 2, 2024

3 F's to Dressing and Feeling Confident w/ Jessica Papineau EP 70

Do you remember the last time you got ready to go somewhere, an event, or to work or to church, or just to hang out with your friends and you felt really good about the way you looked. Like you maybe even said to yourself, I...

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March 26, 2024

Overcoming Overthinking And How To Calm Your Anxiety w/ Heather Lilli…

I know you have a million thoughts going on in your head right now so before you click "play" on this episode really commit to listening to it with as little amount of distractions as possible because in this episode of the T...

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March 19, 2024

Give Yourself A Break And Your Partner Some Space Ep 68

A couple weeks ago, my guest Dr. Corey Allen dropped 2 mind-shifting, bombs on the podcast and I was worried that maybe you were in anxiety mode with a swirl of thoughts running through your mind as you were listening and mig...

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March 12, 2024

Ok, So You've Got Trust Issues w/ Shannon Sauer-Zavala EP 67

I have a major crush on what today's guest is doing. She is working on a treatment module for trust. Thank goodness for people like clinical psychologist. Shannon Sauer-Zavala. She talks about understanding the function of...

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March 5, 2024

When The Hot And Heavy Turns To Just Heavy w/ Dr. Corey Allen EP 66

As most of us Jealousy Junkies are clinging on to our partners. Marriage and Sex Therapist Dr. Corey Allen says... a couple's problems could be a result of them being too close. Not leaving room for individuality. I thoug...

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Feb. 27, 2024

Meltdown Metrics: Evaluation the Before, During, and After EP 65

It's so good to be back in the swing of things and to do a solo episode with you. The exercise I share with you in today's episode is one I did as I was starting to notice improvements in myself with my jealousy and I wanted...

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Feb. 20, 2024

Trust, Communicating, and Couples Therapy w/ Dr. Bruce Chalmer Ep 64

Ever wanted to get inside the mind of a couples therapist and ask questions? Well, in today's episode, I took full advantage of having the great couples therapist, Dr. Bruce Chalmer on and I asked some burning questions for ...

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Feb. 13, 2024

Facing Your Fear of the Unknown and Unpredictable w/ Dr. Jisunny Fish…

Today I interview bestselling author, psychologist and happiness coach, Dr. Jisunny Fisher about how to face the fear of the unknown and unpredictable. Dr. Fisher talks about the human inclination towards avoiding pain over p...

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Feb. 6, 2024

Why You Feel All Over the Place: Female Physiology w/ Jenny Swisher E…

Did you know, a women's body follows infradian rhythm? Well, better late than never on me getting this episode out but this is the final episode to wrap up the physical health month that was supposed to go out in January BUT....

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Jan. 23, 2024

The #1 Thing Between You and Change EP: 61

In today's episode I share a recent personal journey that intertwines physical health and emotional wellbeing, using my own 10-day detox diet as a parallel to overcoming jealousy. Its all about the power of choice. From the ...

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Jan. 9, 2024

How to Stabilize Your Jealousy and Your Blood Sugar Level w/ Dr. Ben …

He's a social media phenomenon and and author of the book "Blood Sugar Doesn't Lie", Dr. Ben Galyardt is my guest today. We share the same philosophy of... treat the root cause, not the symptom. You wont believe how much foo...

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Jan. 2, 2024

Your Anxious Mood Could be Amplified By Your Food w/ Tina Hong EP 59

Did you know your food can affect your mood? I thought I was just in a bad mood. Turns out, it could be the food I ate. :) Go beyond your typical New Year's resolutions and redefine your relationship with food, your body, ...

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